Episode 2: What's Your Why?

Hey Rare Ones! Welcome back to the Be Rare Podcast, the space where we dare to be HUMAN, where we intentionally GROW into the women we aspire to be, and where we find the strength to turn our PAIN into undeniable POWER. Remember, you are THAT GIRL, and this is your reminder: BE RARE.

In Episode 1, we talked about the foundational power of unapologetic self-awareness – the critical first step in seeing where we are so we can figure out where we want to go. Now, in Episode 2, we're diving even deeper into the engine that drives that movement: your WHY.

This episode is incredibly personal and, honestly, one of the most heartfelt conversations I've shared. I open up about one of the most powerful motivators I’ve found in my own life: truly knowing my "why." Through raw storytelling and honest reflection, I share the transformational journey I’ve been on since becoming a mother, and how my daughter unexpectedly became my most profound driving force for healing, growth, and purpose.

I explore the moments when generational trauma, significant heartbreak, and devastating setbacks like losing a job brought me to a breaking point. But within that breakdown, I found the spark for a breakthrough. I talk about the journey from just surviving day-to-day to actively thriving, and I credit my daughter and the enduring legacy of my late grandmother as my two most powerful "whys" – the unwavering sources of strength that keep me getting up and keep me going, especially when life feels overwhelmingly tough.

If you’ve ever found yourself lying in bed, or maybe standing in the kitchen, just staring out the window, quietly asking yourself, “What am I even doing this for? Why am I pushing so hard?” then this episode will likely hit home. Whether you’re navigating the beautiful chaos of parenthood, actively healing from your past, or simply trying to figure out your next step in life, this conversation is for you.

Here are some key takeaways I share in this episode:

• Your "why" keeps you grounded. When life feels like it’s completely falling apart or swirling around you, your "why" gives you something solid to hold onto – an anchor in the storm.

• Parenthood can be a powerful mirror. For me, my daughter became my most compelling reason to look at my life, identify what needed to change, and commit to showing up as a better version of myself, even when it was incredibly difficult.

• Breaking cycles takes immense courage. I talk about confronting limiting beliefs I held about my worth and my capabilities, especially as a single mother, and the intentional steps I’m taking to end patterns that no longer serve me or my family.

• Legacy matters. My grandmother's sacrifices and the life she built became a second, profound source of purpose for me – living proof that this journey of growth and healing is bigger than just myself.

• You are absolutely allowed to grow and evolve. I remind you, and myself, that healing isn’t linear. There will be ups and downs, but you don’t need to be perfect to start, or to keep, moving forward.

  
  

Listen in to hear these memorable quotes and more:

• “I had to look at myself and say—why am I doing this? Why does this hurt? And what can I do to not be here again?” This was a pivotal moment of self-reflection for me.

• “My daughter lit a fire under me. She made me want to be better—not just for me, but for her.” The power of love as a motivator is unparalleled.

• “I didn’t want to pass down broken beliefs. I wanted to pass down freedom.” This is at the core of breaking generational cycles.

• “Having a why doesn’t mean life gets easier—it just means you have a reason to keep getting up.” This truth keeps me grounded on the hard days.

  
  

Ready to explore what truly drives you? Ready to find your anchor? Tune in to Episode 2 of the Be Rare Podcast, "What's Your Why?" and let's uncover that powerful source of motivation together.

Be Human. Grow. Turn Your Pain into Power. Be Rare.

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I can’t wait for you to hear this episode. Come share your thoughts and what your "why" is with me on social media using the hashtag #BeRarePodcast! Let’s connect.